I could not have written this better myself.
Having grief in your life on this level is walking a path filled with land mines. I think I am navigating my way through pretty well when wham! one blows up in my face.
I’ve been told lately by a number of people that have NOT been by my side during the last 10 months that I “look better”, I “sound better” , that I “appear to be doing better.” I am taken aback. Their comments are meant to encourage me I am sure. Instead they make me want to punch them in the face.
The conundrum is that I don’t know why I feel that way. These people obviously have only seen me in passing, they have not squatted here in the trenches with me as some others have. I’m not sure exactly what they mean and maybe they don’t either.
But here is how I take…
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